Helping your child connect faith and finances—one conversation at a time.

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Most parents want their kids to grow up responsible, grounded, and generous, but money can be one of the hardest subjects to teach.

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It feels complicated. Maybe you didn’t grow up talking about money. Maybe you're still working through your own financial habits and hang-ups. Maybe you’re wondering: How do I teach something I’m still figuring out myself?

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Here’s the good news: You don’t have to have it all together. You just have to be willing to talk, model, and start small. When it comes to teaching kids about money and God’s view of it, the most powerful lessons happen in everyday moments, not formal lectures.

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Why Faith and Finances Should Be Taught Together

We often separate money from discipleship—as if it belongs in a different category than faith, character, or relationships. But Jesus didn’t.

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In fact, He talked about money more than almost any other topic. Not because He was concerned with wealth, but because He knew how deeply money would affect the human heart.

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“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” — Matthew 6:21

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When we teach kids about money, we’re not just talking dollars and cents—we’re shaping how they view security, contentment, generosity, trust, and even their identity. That’s spiritual formation.

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That’s why money habits built in childhood matter so much. They don’t just impact spending. They influence how our kids will show up in their future marriages, ministries, workplaces, and communities.

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Start with What’s in Front of You

Teaching kids about money doesn’t require a fancy system or a financial degree. It just takes intention, consistency, and a willingness to let them into the conversation.

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You don’t need to explain compound interest to a five-year-old. Start with what they can grasp: that money is a resource, not a reward. That everything we have comes from God. That we get to make choices with what’s in our hands.

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Here are four foundational ways to begin:

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1. Introduce the “Give, Save, Spend” Framework

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One of the most practical and visual ways to teach kids about money is with three jars or envelopes:

• Give – money for tithing, church, or blessing others
• Save – money set aside for future needs or goals
• Spend – money for everyday or fun purchases

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Any time your child receives money, whether through allowance, chores, or birthday gifts, guide them through the habit of dividing it.

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At first, it will feel mechanical. But over time, it becomes instinct. Kids begin to associate money with purpose rather than just pleasure. They learn that giving isn’t optional—it’s foundational. And they see that saving is just as satisfying as spending.

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Tip: Let your child decide where their “Give” money goes. A local food pantry? Missionary work? A friend in need? Giving becomes real when it’s personal.

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2. Use Allowance as a Learning Tool, Not a Bribe

There’s a lot of debate around allowance. Should it be tied to chores? Should it be given freely? There’s no one right answer. What matters is how you frame it.

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An allowance shouldn’t feel like a reward for existing. It’s not something a child is entitled to. Instead, think of it as a training ground for stewardship.

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A consistent weekly or biweekly allowance gives your child a mini version of adult finances: income, decisions, trade-offs, and consequences. You’re handing them a safe space to practice managing money, before it really counts.

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Make space for conversations like:

• “What are you saving up for right now?”
• “Was that purchase worth it?”
• “How did it feel to give last week?”

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Money is a tool. We teach our kids to use other tools with care and intention—why not money?

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3. Invite Your Kids into Real-Life Money Conversations

You don’t need to show them the tax returns. But kids are watching, even when we don’t invite them in.

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Be intentional about letting them see how you handle money as a family.

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If you’re making a giving decision, bring them into it:

“We’ve been praying about who to give to this month. What are your thoughts?”

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If you’re creating a grocery list or a vacation plan:

“Here’s our budget for this trip—what should we prioritize?”

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If money is tight:

“We’re choosing to wait on that purchase because we want to stay faithful with what we have right now.”

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These moments model restraint, gratitude, and planning—and they give your child a front-row seat to real-world stewardship.

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4. Build Rhythms with Family Budget Check-Ins

Want to normalize healthy money talk in your home? Make it a rhythm.

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Set a monthly time to gather (briefly!) as a family. You don’t need spreadsheets or pie charts—just a few talking points:

• What did we give this month?
• What are we saving for as a family?
• Where did we do well? Where could we grow?
• Is there someone we feel led to bless?

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This practice builds transparency, alignment, and shared purpose. It also teaches your kids that budgeting isn’t just about control—it’s about impact.

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The Real Goal: Raising Stewards, Not Just Spenders

Teaching kids about money and God isn’t about creating little finance experts. It’s about raising children who know that everything belongs to God, and that they’ve been entrusted with resources to manage with care, purpose, and joy.

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As a parent, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Just show up. Let your kids see you praying over your budget. Let them see you give when no one’s watching. Let them hear you say, “We can’t afford that right now, and that’s okay.”

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These moments shape them more than any lesson plan ever could.

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Next Steps for Your Family

If you’re ready to take a small step, try one of these this week:

• Start a Give/Save/Spend jar system
• Have a 15-minute family budget chat over dinner
• Let your teen create a mock budget in StewardWise for a part-time job
• Ask your child who they’d like to bless with $5 of giving money

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And remember: teaching kids about money isn’t a one-time talk. It’s a lifelong conversation, grounded in faith, lived out in practice.

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